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Louann BrizendineA modern alternative to SparkNotes and CliffsNotes, SuperSummary offers high-quality Study Guides with detailed chapter summaries and analysis of major themes, characters, and more.
Content Warning: This section of the guide discusses self-harm.
Leila, a toddler, happily plays with other girls, but when her cousin Joseph arrives with his friends, they ruin her experience. Another unnamed female toddler treats a firetruck like a doll. Brizendine declares such play behavior is not caused by socialization, but results from neurological sex differences. She assumes the differences in female and male biology result in differences in their experiences of reality, citing the sex roles of non-human animals as support for her claim. Female fetuses usually have two X chromosomes, and they usually do not experience the prenatal surge in testosterone that typically occurs with male fetuses. These differences, Brizendine asserts, result in gendered behavior.
Brizendine bonded with Leila during Leila’s infancy and early childhood. She noticed that Leila, unlike Brizendine’s own son, made frequent eye contact. Initially worried, she later concluded that the difference was rooted in neurological sex differences. Female children, she states, will do anything to elicit an emotional response, just as an adult women will strive to win the approval of an “emotionally unavailable man” (38). Female children also comprehend social approval better than male ones, as seen in Leila’s good behavior while at a restaurant. She supports her assumptions with an experiment that found female children to have better impulse control than male children when directed not to play with a toy cow. The experiment, Brizendine argues, demonstrates that girls can interpret vocal tones while boys cannot, which leads them into misbehavior. That female children can interpret facial gestures is demonstrated through Leila demanding attention when she felt she was being ignored. While Leila’s parents expressed concern over this demanding behavior, Brizendine countered that it was form of self-validation. Leila’s mother, Cara, later had a son and was concerned about differences between him and Leila. Brizendine posits that the concerns stemmed from the disparity between male and female empathy capabilities, using two studies to support the claim—one depicting female infants as easier to soothe and one showing female children as more responsive than male ones to the cries of other infants. Inherent female empathy is also illustrated through Leila interacting with Brizendine when Brizendine was in a low mood.
Infantile puberty lasts 24 months in female and nine in male children. Brizendine states that this means that high levels of estrogen produced by the ovaries prime women for social development. Sheila’s daughter, Jennifer, was born shortly before Sheila’s husband’s infidelity was exposed. When Jennifer later experienced anxiety that her stepfather was being unfaithful to Sheila, Brizendine interpreted the cause as Sheila’s emotional stress during Jennifer’s infancy. In animal studies, researchers have found a correlation between maternal stress levels and the stress levels of female offspring, which supports the idea that some behaviors can pass to later generations through epigenetic imprinting. Superior social skills in female humans, Brizendine suggests, evolved to help them to predict the behavior of aggressive men and to form alliances with other women. She demonstrates the idea that women strive to preserve relationships through the anecdote of twin girls who peacefully swap clothes; alleging without evidence that a brother would take want he wanted by force. Returning to Leila and Joseph’s interaction on the playground, Brizendine introduces a linguistic study by Deborah Tannen which showed female children using collaborative language, while male ones command, brag, and ignore suggestions. Again, Brizendine attributes the difference to in-utero testosterone exposure.
The “juvenile pause”—a period with low levels of sex hormones—follows infantile puberty. Brizendine reflects on her first friend, Mikey; she stopped having playdates with him because he bullied her and wouldn’t listen to his mother. Brizendine connects this behavior to studies showing that female chimpanzees play rougher after receiving testosterone. Such experiments are not performed on humans, so Brizendine points to the experiences of women with congenital adrenal hyperplasia (CAH)—when a female fetus produces high levels of testosterone—to defend her position. A young female patient with CAH presented as having typically male interests, so Brizendine presumes that female toddlers with CAH have similar brain structures as males. Brizendine acknowledges that socialization and education play a role in gendered behavior, but asserts that nature is the driving force of behavior. Still, Brizendine concedes that adult expectations can influence children’s behavior, as seen in an anecdote about Wendy and her daughter, Samantha, who climbed a slide ladder, and then looked to her mother for approval. Brizendine speculates that, had Wendy looked anxious, Samantha wouldn’t have gone down the slide. Wendy also speculates that her son would not have looked at her for approval. Another noted childhood sex difference is bossiness in young female children, seen in Leila who enjoys playing with her father because he obeys her commands. Thus, Brizendine posits, female humans present their aggression through social manipulation.
Brizendine broadly generalizes that female teenagers are dramatic and obsessed with their appearance. Shelly, Brizendine’s friend, had two teenage daughters consumed by their appearance, which Brizendine claims would happen despite media influence. During puberty, the endocrine system releases high amounts of sex hormones. Teen girls experience monthly fluctuations in hormones according to their menstrual cycles, which results in fluctuating social sensitivity. One study showed that female puberty features higher stress responses than male puberty, which Brizendine attributes to estrogen and progesterone. Estrogen is correlated with sociability, and progesterone is associated with irritability. While teaching teenagers about male and female neurological differences, Brizendine allowed the students to ask questions. Male students asked why female peers go to the bathroom together, implying that the reason was sexual; their female peers explained that they use the time and space to talk. This, Brizendine asserts, is proof of inherent gendered behavior: Important female relationships develop during bathroom trips. Moreover, female relationships are solidified via language, which the author connects to the enlarged verbal areas in female brains and to the findings that women speak more than men. She cites the public silencing punishments used against women during the US colonial period, and then further supports her position by sharing a study that found female rhesus monkeys to have earlier and more varied vocalization.
Brizendine worked with 15-year-old Shana and her mother, Lauren. When Shana’s school performance declined and she developed behavioral issues, Lauren restricted Shana’s phone use and social time. This triggered a tantrum, which, Brizendine explains, was caused by Shana’s drive to socialize with female peers. Male teenagers, Brizendine claims, become less social during puberty. Returning to the classroom anecdote, Brizendine suggests the boys’ claim to prefer no pubic hair on their sexual partners is proof that male teens are consumed with sexual thoughts and are fearful adults will intuit those thoughts. She also suggests that male teens feel isolated until hearing other men talking about female sexually, and that they have different priorities. Female teens’ main goal is to preserve relationships and avoid conflict, while male teens enjoy conflict, according to Brizendine. Researcher Robert Josephs found a trend that men derive self-esteem from independence, while women derive self-esteem via relationships. Turbulence in relationships causes stress in female humans, which leads Brizendine to posit that the fight-or-flight response does not represent the female experience: Female humans are unevenly matched against male ones in physical fighting, while pregnant and mothering humans are less able to react with flight. Presumably, communication and social bonds thus act as alternate stress responses. Brizendine refers to this alternate as “tend and befriend” (70), citing that female primates have been shown to band together to banish an aggressive male and to tend each other’s offspring.
Shana’s behavior changed when she turned ten and began sleeping and waking later. Brizendine explains the sleep pattern changes were caused by rising estrogen levels. She discusses that some scientists have used sleep studies to conclude that female brains mature more quickly because their brain wave patterns change earlier compared to in males. Shana’s behavior worsened, and Lauren slapped Shana after Shana screamed and insulted her. Brizendine noticed that Shana’s behavior coincided with her menstrual cycle. Heightened estrogen during the first two weeks of the menstrual cycle results in relaxed behavior, while the progesterone increase after ovulation results first in sedateness, and then irritability. Progesterone drops during menstruation, further affecting mood. Shana had screamed at her mother during her progesterone drop—a period during which many females report emotional sensitivity. A few days later, Shana apologized—a result of rising estrogen. David Rubinow found a correlation between the menstrual cycle and mood by testing female startle responses. Ten percent of women, Brizendine claims, are greatly affected by their hormone cycles, and they experience severe symptoms including depression, panic attacks, and intense rage. The condition is called premenstrual dysphoric disorder (PMDD). Brizendine diagnosed Shana with PMDD and successfully treated her with birth control.
Shana loved her boyfriend, Jeff, but the next day Shana brought Mike home. Such impulsive behavior, the author explains, is caused by increased activity in the amygdala that overwhelms the prefrontal cortex. Another patient, Joan, almost abandoned her plans of attending college to stay with a local boy. After her parents threatened her, she chose to attend college, but she stopped talking to them for a time. Parental restrictions, Brizendine warns, may result in rebellious behavior. Another patient, Karen, was criticized by her parents for wanting to attend college. After graduating, Karen worked at a topless bar, where she earned enough money for tuition. Female teenagers may cope with stress by engaging in dangerous behaviors. Brizendine advises parents to remain calm when dealing with an emotional teenager. When Mike broke up with Shana and her friends were mad at the way she had treated Jeff, her school performance declined. Shana became obsessed with Mike, and she engaged in self-harm. After puberty, female teens are twice as likely to experience depression as male teens. Brizendine prescribed antidepressants for Shana, which eased her symptoms.
Hormonal changes can also result in meanness. Brizendine remembers a less attractive girl putting gum into the hair of a shy, pretty girl in her school. The less attractive girl, Brizendine assumes, felt triumphant because the pretty girl had to cut her hair. According to Brizendine, such behavior is driven by androgens, which also cause acne. Shana had acne and developed breasts by age 15, and she had engaged in sex. From this, Brizendine derived that Shana had high levels of androgens in her system, which triggered her aggression. Studies have found that estrogen, as well as testosterone, may contribute to female aggression. There is no one cause of turbulent behavior in teenagers, and teenage females experience drastic changes in self-perception. Once stabilized, Brizendine asserts that the female brain will push its owner “Right into the arms of a man” (86).
Each chapter aligns with a typical sequential life phase, with the first focusing on prenatal and young children and the second on adolescence and puberty.
The theme of Neurological Causes of Gendered Behavior is emphasized by the identification of one or more biological causes of behavior for each age range or life phase. The gendered behavior of young children is attributed to the presence of prenatal testosterone and to infantile puberty.
The focus on biological factors demonstrates the role of Shifting Female Hormones in the text. While socialization is mentioned at times, Brizendine glosses over the impacts that culture has on gendered behavior. For instance, she declares, “This isn’t socialization,” when describing the female toddler who cuddled a fire truck, arguing, “Girls arrive already wired as girls, and boys arrive already wired as boys” (34). While Brizendine dismisses the pervasive gender stereotypes children are exposed to as not impactful, critics point out that gendered socialization begins before birth, and, despite attempts at gender-neutral parenting, it is nearly impossible to eliminate exposure to representations of gender stereotypes (Fine, Cordelia. Delusions of Gender. W.W. Norton, 2010).
Socialization is similarly disregarded in Chapter 2, where Brizendine presents the idea that stereotypical teenage behavior is driven by the effects of puberty. The author claims that, “During puberty, a girls’ entire biological raison d’être is to become sexually desirable” (57). This statement explicitly states that female teenagers exist solely to sexually attract males. Her statement introduces the regressive theme of Reproductive Roles of Female Humans, which reduces the women to their biological function rather taking a more holistic approach to behavior evaluation. This reduction is further developed through the assertions that irresponsible, rude, or dangerous behavior is caused by hormonal changes. Such arguments imply that these behaviors, particularly in men, are unavoidable and thus should not be punished or restricted; they thus validate damaging gender stereotypes.
While Brizendine often cites scientific studies, her claim development relies heavily on generalization, speculation, and anecdotal evidence. Brizendine promotes her education and her career experience, which she highlights in the introduction, to support her credibility and to encourage readers to accept such speculations without skepticism. Brizendine often presents her unfounded generalizations as common sense, such as when she asserts that the menstrual cycle results in irrational reactions—“Most women know that, in weeks three and four, angry impulses fall under the two-day rule. They’ll wait two days and see if they still want to act on them” (74). The phrase “most women know” posits this broadly sweeping statement as a piece of folk wisdom, rather than a sexist trope. Another example of generalization occurs when she asserts that all male teenagers are hyper-focused on sexual thoughts about female peers. Her argument here is flawed; not only does she not account for attraction to members of the same sex, but also her claim that only male teens, and not female ones, are consumed by sexual thoughts rests on the fact that male teens claimed to prefer no pubic hair on sexual partners. Her interpretation of her own anecdote ignores the fact that it was the female students who introduced the topic of pubic hair in the first place. Speculation and assumptions are used to make connections or to fill informational gaps.
Brizendine’s claims also often rely on leaps of logic and guesswork unsupported by research. For instance, she makes a speculation when she says of CAH females that “these girls’ behavior and presumably their brain structures are more similar to those of males than to females” (50). Although Brizendine admits that no such evidence exists, she justifies her speculation by arguing that performing an MRI scan on a toddler would be too difficult.
To make the text more relatable, Brizendine uses anecdotal evidence in the form of case studies—a form of evidence that is also highly subjective and typically too idiosyncratic to draw the kinds of sweeping conclusions Brizendine often makes. For example, Leila serves to demonstrate the argument that young female children are more communicative and empathetic than male peers. Brizendine attempts to avoid the implication of an anti-male bias by describing Leila’s bossy and demanding attitudes. Shana is used to demonstrate that aggressive, obsessive, and irresponsible behavior in female teenagers is driven by hormones and, as such, is unavoidable. Although the parents in both case studies feel their children’s behavior is a result of social factors—demonstrated directly through Cara and Charles expressing concern over spoiling Leila and through Lauren’s attempts to correct Shana’s behavior—Brizendine posits that the undesirable behavior is innate and caused by their biology instead.
Another troublesome aspect of the text’s pseudo-scientific argumentation is its lack of direct in-text citations. While some of the citations include identifying information, such as the name of the researcher, many are vague, constrained to such language as “Observations made during a study at Harvard Medical School” or “Another study showed” (40)—references that would be difficult for readers to confirm for themselves. Even the citations that do include identifiable information, such as Michael Meany or Deborah Tannen’s research, are unclear. The reference section includes four entries for Meany and two for Tannen. Without clear and direct in-text citations, it is difficult for readers to compare Brizendine’s interpretation of the source material to the original source.
Brizendine’s claims imply biases and limited perspectives that are carried through the text. The discussion is constrained to the supposed perspectives of cisgender heterosexual female humans—aside from a relatively short discussion of women with CAH. A cisgender bias appears in many statements, like “Let’s say the sperm that led the charge carries an X and not a Y chromosome. Voilà, the fertilized egg is a girl” (36). Such statements eliminate transgender, nonbinary, and intersex individuals from the discussion. The text is also limited to a middle- to upper-class perspective. Each of the patients discussed has access to high-end specialized psychiatric care, which implies they are relatively wealthy. The author’s wealth and cultural bias is also shown in her attempt to relate to her audience—“If you’re feeling a little down and have a nice glass of wine or a lovely piece of chocolate, your attitude can shift” (34). Not only is this statement likely less relatable for some religious and ethnic communities, but it also neglects those who may be experiencing mental health issues by suggesting a low mood can be remedied with alcohol or candy. The author does not directly address the biases within her work, instead presenting her information as universally applicable, which is one of the primary reasons The Female Brain is considered controversial and damaging.
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